Nationality of Kashmiries

A Kasmiri can be defined in multiple terms but you can never define a Kashmiri in a specific term.Being a Kashmiri I often ask myself that who am I and what is my nationality.Living in Indian administered J&K a Kashmiri is known as Indian national and brother of the same person living across line of control LoC is called Pakistani.Isn't this a strange thing for a Kashmiri who is Kashmiri but isforced to hide his nationality????????????